
How the World’s Cultures Gathered in One Nation & How We Lost the Meaning Behind It All
By Roshan Jayasinghe
There’s a story that was told so often, in so many languages, with such polished conviction, that it came to define an entire era of human aspiration.
A story that said “Come here. Become something. Be someone.”
This was the American Dream. A dream that became not just a national idea, but a global illusion.
People crossed oceans, borders, and belief systems in search of it. They gave up the familiar in the hope of something freer, fuller, fairer.
But what they found was something else entirely.
The promise was simple. Work hard, and you’ll be rewarded. Play by the rules, and you’ll be safe. Believe in the system and it will believe in you.
To those on the outside, this sounded like liberation. A chance to rewrite life. A shot at dignity. And some did find pieces of what they were seeking – success, recognition, moments of joy, even a sense of belonging.
But often, it came at a cost. A cost to mental peace. A cost to authenticity. A cost to relationships. A cost to health, identity, or sense of self. A cost to their understanding of what it means to truly live. Many learned to mask the dissonance. To smile over the ache. To name it “freedom” even when it felt like quiet captivity.
Because the dream said “If you made it, no matter how it feels, you must protect the image.”
What wasn’t told to the world was that the dream had conditions. Unspoken terms like: conform to be accepted, compete to stay afloat, normalize exhaustion, stay quiet about your struggle, and measure success in accumulation, not alignment.
This is not freedom. This is performance mistaken for purpose. And worse, it teaches people to believe that if they are struggling, it’s because they failed. Not because the system was never designed to include them in the first place.
The most dangerous part of the American Dream isn’t its failure inside the country. It’s how it was exported to the world. It taught nations to replace cultural wisdom with productivity. To abandon communal values for individual gain. To chase dominance instead of harmony. To worship competition over compassion. And in doing so, it fractured societies. It rewired generations. I normalized inequality and it diminished joy in the name of progress.
This dream did not unite the world. It distorted it.
If you have to go into debt to be educated, sacrifice your wellness to be employed, work endlessly to survive,
pay thousands just to stay alive and watch the rich grow richer while you tread water…then you are not living a dream. You are maintaining someone else’s empire, disguised as a national promise.
This is the genius of the American Dream – it convinces you to sell yourself, and be thankful for the opportunity.
Is this freedom or just a well-packaged illusion? Is health truly a freedom if it comes with a price tag? Is housing a right, when it’s treated like a commodity?
If the answer is no to the above, and it is, then what exactly are we calling freedom?
When the basics of lifecare, shelter, dignity are only available to those who can afford them, we are not talking about freedom. We are talking about privilege disguised as liberty. And when the systems that govern those essentials such as healthcare, housing, food and education are controlled by a small elite driven by profit, then we are not living in a democracy. We are living in a managed illusion, sold with slogans like “land of the free” and “home of the brave,” while in truth, it has become the land of the priced that is governed by the few.
So yes, it makes a great headline. But beneath it lies a quiet epidemic of disillusionment.
The question is not whether we are free. The real question is – who benefits from saying that we are? There is something else, something sacred, that America holds, but rarely honors. America is made of everyone. Every language. Every spice. Every rhythm. Every struggle. Every tradition. It is a mosaic of humanity, an earth-wide gathering in one place.
This is not America’s weakness. This is its greatest gift. But instead of embracing this collective wisdom as sacred, the system divided it. Instead of integrating cultures, it exploited them. Instead of learning from the diversity, it used it to manipulate power. Instead of building bridges, it built political tribes and weaponized difference.
What could have been a living example of global unity has been reduced to a theater of division, fueled by corporate greed and controlled by two political machines more interested in winning power than serving people.
But what if America remembered what it truly is? Not a battleground of beliefs but a convergence point of human potential. What if the rituals, languages, medicines, foods, and philosophies of every community were seen not as foreign, but as futuristic? As the very wisdom needed to heal a broken planet?
America could have become the blueprint for conscious civilization.
But first, it must heal from the illusion that dominance is power.
True power is not held in parties or profits. It lives in people. In presence. In community. In the shared knowing that every culture has something essential to offer, if we are willing to listen.
The dream isn’t dead afterall. It’s simply waiting to be remembered, by those willing to live differently.
So yes, add justice to the list. Add freedom too. Both have been sold and used to divide.
And now, it is our responsibility to remember. To unlearn. To rebuild. To rise, not alone, but together.
We don’t need more reform. We need a rebirth, of what it means to live with dignity, to care without hierarchy, to protect what is sacred.
It begins by telling the truth. And continues by living like we believe it. This is not a tale of bitterness. This is a human reflection. A mirror held to the world we’ve created, and the one we still have time to create together.
Yes, many have risen.Built businesses. Accumulated wealth and earned applause.
But in the silence between milestones, a deeper question calls: – What did I build that allowed others to rise with me? What systems did I leave behind that uplifted instead of extracting? Who did I walk with, not behind or ahead, but beside? Did my wealth restore, or did it only accumulate?
This is not a question of guilt. It is a question of meaning.
Because when our triumph is isolated, when our peace is protected by walls, when our legacy stands above instead of among, we are not fulfilled. We are merely comfortable. And in a world where so many are pushed down to raise a few, let our names be remembered not for what we owned but for what we lifted. Not for how far we climbed but for how many we helped rise with us. Because greatness is not what you gather. It is what you give back to the human field from which you came. And in the end, the question is not “Did I make it?” – The real question is: Did we rise?
And maybe, just maybe, we’ve misunderstood the anthem all along.
The “land of the free” was never meant to be a gated prize for those who arrived first. It was meant to be a living promise, kept alive by the shared actions of all who come seeking a better way.
Freedom isn’t a status stamped on a passport. It is a soul-level responsibility.
To make the land we step on more just than how we found it. To bring not only our dreams, but our decency. To bring not only our labor, but our love. To rise not only for ourselves, but for each other.
And bravery? Bravery is not found in flags or force. It lives in those who choose to build a nation, where no one is left behind. A nation not governed by fear, or greed, or partisan grip but one led by humility, contribution, and collective care.
That is what it truly means to be the land of the free, and the home of the brave.
Not because we say it. But because we live it. Together!
About the Author
Roshan Jayasinghe is a humanist thinker and emerging writer based in California. With a background in administration and a deep passion for social equity, he explores the intersections of politics, identity, and compassion through a lens grounded in nature’s own self-correcting wisdom.

Roshan Jayasinghe
Rooted in the belief that humanity can realign with the natural order where balance, regeneration, and interdependence are inherent. Roshan’s reflections invite readers to pause, question, and reimagine the systems we live within. His writing seeks not to impose answers, but to spark thought and awaken a deeper awareness of our shared human journey. Roshan will be sharing weekly articles that gently challenge, inspire, and reconnect us to what matters most.
Love this ! brilliantly insightfulness Roshan Jayasinghe. It resonates for me with my thoughts and having returned from the USA after living there for 5 years.
Wow Roshan! That is one incredible piece. Where was all this talent burried all this time my friend? Never knew you could write like this. Amazing. Love it bud.